Being unpredictable makes you interesting. Predictability can lead to boredom, as the brain functions like a prediction machine. It anticipates what comes next in movies, books, or scenarios we encounter. Living in one place or spending time with the same person for an extended period allows us to gather data and knowledge that make it easier to predict their actions.
When predictions are easy, there is less novelty for our brains, resulting in decreased dopamine release and fewer rewards. A balance of unpredictability and predictability is necessary for our brains to crave more – similar to gambling at casinos where winning isn’t guaranteed but still possible.
To be perceived as interesting by others, avoid being entirely predictable. If someone knows your next move or exactly what you’ll say, they lose interest over a period of time. You will have better bonding but not the same excitement as before. Switch things up often with people you know well; trying new things or making unexpected moves enhances your unpredictability and social appeal as an interesting individual.